Be Happy.

Life is way too damn short, which I discovered the Hardaway, to not enjoy it and stop letting stupid, petty and immature things get in the way of living it to the fullest. I had been stuck, but no more. I am out of the room and in 2021 not 2016. The kids and I are going to live life to the fullest and do the best things in life. It is simple, I am going to make the most out of the rest of my life and will always hold on and cherish those wonderful memories of my life with Dawne, but it is time that I accept her death, move forward, embrace life and start enjoying it. I am going to be happy, period.

Tuesday, March 2, 2021
It seems to me, that I leaped frogged from 2016 to 2021 and missed all those years in between, missing out on watching my kids grow up. By all accounts, until recently, the kids lost both parents that night. I still have time to right that wrong. The kids are my everythings and matter most.
Joey Montes
Have Fun.

Letting go of the past and fear of a life without Dawne, I am doing those things that make me happy and I enjoy and love doing. I no longer want to be a part of the drama triangle, being the villain doesn't make me happy, being the victim doesn't provide any joy and trying to be the hero is a recipe for misery and not fun. I am committed to having fun and will not let anyone bring the misery, anymore. Being a complete and total smartass doesn't always work and it is not always fun. Laughter is great for the soul, but laughter at someone else's expense is wrong and hurtful to the other and not enjoyable.

  • March 29, 2021 - Kristie U. 50th Birthday
  • April 12, 2021 - My Dads 79th Birthday
  • July 1, 2021 - Devon's 24th Birthday
  • July 4, 2021 - Joey's 53rd Birthday
  • July 27, 2021 - Anniversary 20 - would've been
  • March 29, 2021 - Kristie U. 50th Birthday
  • April 12, 2021 - My Dads 79th Birthday
  • July 1, 2021 - Devon's 24th Birthday
  • July 4, 2021 - Joey's 53rd Birthday
  • July 27, 2021 - Anniversary 20 - would've been
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